🌿 DIY Meal Matrix (ADHD Friendly)

A high-protein, high-fiber, high-variety, low-decision framework for everyday eating.

🌟 Why I Created This System

For most of my adult life, food has been a rollercoaster β€” both a source of comfort and a constant stress. I’ve tried nearly every system you can imagine: strict diets, meal plans, calorie-tracking apps, β€œeat clean” challenges. Some worked for a short while, but none of them ever lasted. They were either too rigid, too boring, or too exhausting to maintain in real life.

Living with ADHD only made it harder. On bad days, just deciding what to eat could feel like a full-time job. I’d spend more energy negotiating with myself about meals than I did actually cooking or eating them. And when I was tired, stressed, or overwhelmed, all my β€œplans” would crumble, and I’d end up defaulting to fast food, snacks that didn’t satisfy me, or skipping meals entirely. It left me frustrated, guilty, and even more disconnected from what my body actually needed.

Eventually, I realized the problem wasn’t me β€” it was the systems. I didn’t need another diet to whip me into shape. I needed a framework that was built around my body weight goals, my energy requirements, and my actual food preferences. Something high in protein so I’d feel full and strong, steady enough to support workouts and mood, but flexible enough to fit into my real life without becoming another burden.

That’s what led me to create this system. It’s not about perfection, restriction, or chasing an ideal body. It’s about having an ADHD-friendly map that keeps me nourished, grounded, and regulated. It’s about turning meals into anchors instead of stressors, and letting food be a source of stability instead of a constant source of anxiety.
(Also note: I didn’t use oatmeal one time! But you can add it if you enjoy it.)


🌿 How the Matrix Works

⚑ This system is:

  • Low effort β†’ no meal-prep marathons
  • High protein β†’ supports weight loss + muscle retention
  • ADHD-friendly β†’ structured variety, no decision fatigue
  • Flexible β†’ mix DIY, Salad & Go, Thistle, or whatever’s accessible

βœ… Each meal includes fiber + ~30g protein
βœ… Each snack hovers around ~15g protein
βœ… All meals take 5–10 minutes to make
βœ… Built-in variety keeps dopamine flowing
βœ… Always accessible + satisfying

✨ Note: Rice is always brown rice for higher protein. Batch-cook and freeze in Souper Cubes for grab-and-go portions.


🌞 Breakfasts (Big 6)

(always with matcha + collagen = +8–10g protein)

  • πŸ₯£ Siggi’s + granola β†’ ~19–20g
  • 🌯 Chili crisp egg wrap (2 eggs) β†’ ~15–21g
  • πŸ₯‘ Avocado egg toast (2 eggs) β†’ ~18g
  • πŸ§€ Cheesy egg toast (2 eggs) β†’ ~21–22g
  • 🍚 Kimchi brown rice + 2 eggs (1 cup rice) β†’ ~18g
  • 🍌 PB/AB + banana toast + hemp β†’ ~22–23g

➑️ With collagen: 25–33g protein per breakfast


πŸ₯— Lunch (Anchor)

  • Bagged salad + protein (rotisserie chicken, Just Bare chicken, or tinned fish)
    ➑️ ~25–30g protein (2–3 oz protein + full salad kit)

🍏 Snacks (Mini-Meals, ~15g protein)

  • πŸ₯’ Hummus + veggies + 2 hard-boiled eggs β†’ ~15–17g
  • 🐟 Β½ can tinned fish + crackers β†’ ~15–18g (whole can = full meal)
  • πŸ§€ 2 mozzarella sticks + cuties β†’ ~15g
  • 🍎 Apple + nut butter β†’ ~7–9g (add cheese stick or egg to hit 15g)
  • 🍫 Trubar protein bar β†’ ~12–15g

πŸ› Dinners (Warm + Comforting)

  • 🐟 Salmon–rice–seaweed bowl β†’ 1 cup brown rice (5g) + ~4 oz salmon (25g) = ~30g protein
  • πŸ— Just Bare chicken + Super Fries + veg β†’ ~25–30g protein
  • 🍜 Ramen hack (Mike’s Mighty Good) β†’ 2 eggs (12g) + broth + spinach/kimchi + noodles = ~22–25g protein
  • πŸ₯” Loaded potato β†’ potato (4g) + chicken/tuna/beans/ greek yogurt, cheese topping (15–20g) = ~20–25g protein
  • 🫘 Beans & rice bowl β†’ 1 cup beans (15g) + 1 cup brown rice (5g) + toppings = ~20–25g protein
  • 🍲 Silken tofu rice bowl + kimchi β†’ Β½ block tofu (16g) + 1 cup rice (5g) = ~20–22g protein

πŸͺ Dessert


πŸ“Š Daily Protein Targets

  • Breakfast β†’ 25–33g
  • Lunch β†’ 25–30g
  • Snack β†’ ~15g
  • Dinner β†’ 22–30g
  • Dessert β†’ ~20g

πŸ‘‰Β Total: ~120–150g protein/day (effortlessly)


πŸ’Œ This system isn’t designed to meet everyone’s nutrition needs. It’s simply the framework that works for me. I hope it inspires you to find your own balance.

❀️ Ariel

✨Written by a Virgo Rising βœ¨πŸ¦„

P.S. Let me know if you’re interested in recipe specifics, and I’ll hook you up! πŸ˜‰

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